I desperately need your advice. What would you do if you were pastor here?

It's about a guy who started coming to our church a little more than a year ago. Brian (not his real name) is a single guy, 26 years old, who works at our local hospital. He showed up here at church one Sunday toting his (pretty well worn) Bible, reporting he'd moved here from out of state a few months before. Our church is a loving church, and our people quickly embraced Brian. He is easy to like -- he came to both morning and evening services, occasionally even showing up at our "midweek prayer meeting" though it was populated mostly by older people. Our older ladies loved him immediately.

Brian was a real "catch" for our small church. A younger professional guy with lots of connections. Soon he brought his roommate Jared along too (also not the real name). In fact, over the next six months Brian brought several other friends to church, and they have become a sort of "band" of young professionals in this rather stable older congregation. Our older ladies started calling them, "Brian's bunch."

Brian and his friends are amazingly faithful. They come every Sunday morning and most Sunday evenings. They've plunged right in to our fellowship and even attend our carry-in dinners. They always bring their Bibles and sit near the front on the left-hand side. The guys invariably are the first to show up and set up for our monthly carry-in dinners, and they a