I’m a Liberal…and I admit it

 

I guess I’m a liberal and my dad was a liberal before me. I’m not speaking of being theologically liberal or even politically liberal but I admit I’m a denominational liberal. 

 

I am a liberal in the “Holiness movement” which is a collection of small denominations many of whom “came out” of Methodism especially when Methodism started doing liberal things like having robed choirs or doing away with revival meetings, prayer meetings and Sunday night services.[1]  The Holiness movement denominations were peopled by lots of conservatives who were reacting to the growing “liberalism” of the Methodists.

 

Thus, my denomination[2] has conservative roots. By 1905 we had defined ourselves as being “more conservative than the liberal Methodists.”  Once we labeled “conservative” as a good thing we soon defined “more conservative” as more good.  It became kind of a race for who could be the most conservative since the more conservative you were the more holy you were.  Eventually this race to conservatism led to hundreds of our own churches to split from the denomination-that-split-from-other-liberals. These splits-from-splits happened because the splitters claimed to be even more conservative then the liberal conservatives they were splitting from This is how my dad got to be a liberal.

 

My dad was a liberal on television. In 1952 my uncle Hobart, a wealthy executive with U.S. Steel, bought our family a television to help my parents “provide an enriched environment” for their favorite nephew—me.  Our TV was trouble for my dad’s ministerial career.  It created such a furor among the conservative pastors in Western Pennsylvania (where he served my denomination as a District Superintendent) that they organized a resistance movement to vote him out of office. They referred to the antenna on our roof as “devil’s ears” and circulated rumors and accusations that their “liberal” DS was watching trash like I Love Lucy or the Jack Benny Show.[3]  My dad would seem ultra-conservative today, but in his day and on this issue he was a liberal.

 

I became a liberal by going bowling. Good conservative Christians in my denomination didn’t go bowling. In bowling alleys people smoked, they sometimes played pool and sometimes they even drank alcohol. Bowling alleys were not the sort of place a Christian young person would want to be found at the rapture. My first high school rebellion against the conservatives was to take a girlfriend bowling. I borrowed my dad’s car but he asked “Where you going?”  I never lied to my dad so I confessed I intended to take my girlfriend bowling. Pondering my plans a few moments he replied, “Park out back, OK?” [4] This is how I became a liberal in my church—I went bowling. Later on I even went further and snuck off to a movie—I saw the world war II movie, The Longest Day.  This is how I became a liberal.

 

Now my entire denomination is liberal. There are generally two branches of “holiness churches.” There are the “mainline holiness denominations” including my denomination, the Nazarenes and the Free Methodists but there is also a “Conservative holiness movement” which comprises hundreds of “come out” churches who work to preserve the “old paths” of holiness culture and convictions. These churches consider the leaders at my denomination’s headquarters “liberals” and most think all of my denomination’s colleges as dangerously “liberal.” They do not think a woman should cut her hair and their women do not wear jewelry since the Bible plainly forbids it. Many still do not own TVs, reject the use of the Internet, and will not eat in any restaurant that serves liquor. They won’t eat at all in a restaurant on Sunday or even take a Sunday newspaper. They think people like me who do these things are “liberal.” So when we toss around labels like “liberal” or “conservative” they are not new to me—I’ve seen plenty of labeling in the church through my lifetime.

 

I’d like to share this week what I don’t like about conservatives.

 

What I don’t like about conservatives

1. Conservatives specialize in name-calling and labeling.

Conservatives are masters at dirty words. They know how to present a word, damn it by association then stick that label on their enemies damning their enemy with the damned word. Knowing “liberal” is already dirtied they drag it into the conversation attaching it to denominations, colleges and preachers who don’t completely toe the conservative line. To them “liberal” is anyone who departs from their own narrow understanding of lifestyle. Labeling and name-calling is a shortcut way to condemning others. Conservatives are specialists in libeling through labeling

 

2. Conservatives get their following through negativity and fear.

Conservatives seldom derive their strength from positive forces like evangelism, promoting holiness, or planting churches—or even promoting the value of a conservative lifestyle. They get most of their energy from criticizing liberals, warning what will happen when liberals get in charge, or pining for the past. It is easier to condemn “liberal churches full of women dressed like Jezebels” than to say something positive about the beauty of simplicity. Conservatives have mastered the art of fear-mongering to raise money, “If you don’t support our cause the liberals will take over and ruin your children.” Their cause is condemnation and there are plenty of folk who will give money to have their own anger and fear stirred up. Fear-mongering is a cheap way to get a following. It is far easier to curse the darkness than to light a candle.

 

3. Conservatives take a single issue approach.

While there are dozens of ways conservative holiness folk differ from progressive churches they often pick one master issue to attack the liberals on. Ironically, for all the heated denunciation these single issues shift over time. I recall when the master issue was “bobbed hair” as conservatives damned the liberals for letting their women “cut off the very hair God gave them as their glory. They said, “Ichabod—the glory has departed.” Then the issue switched to Television. If you owned a TV you were a liberal. Then came jewelry or make-up—the liberal women wore ear-rings or “rubbed their faces with rouge.” When conservatives themselves got their own TVs they switched to VCRs, CATV and later the Internet. One conservative group prided themselves in using “text only” on their Internet connection as they condemned others who let the graphics through. Conservatives don’t dance but they sure have danced from one single-issue test to another in the last 50 years. The leaders raising money from the conservatives know when to drop their last single issue and pick up another one to maintain their cash flow. The truth is the primary difference between the conservatives and the liberals is about 30 years.  Conservatives quietly adopt the things they condemned 30 years ago then cover it over by picking a new single issue to prove they are still conservative compared to the liberals they condemn. Most conservatives have no permanent lifestyle position other than to be behind the liberals.

 

4. Conservatives refuse to compromise.

Conservatives are proud they refuse to compromise. Indeed they consider “compromise” a dirty word useful in labeling others as “compromisers.” When hundreds of conservatives and churches left my denomination in the 1930’s and the 1960’s, attempts were made to find a compromise on the single issues of the day. They would not hear of it. Conservatives insisted that everyone in the denomination from California to Virginia must adopt their own conservative lifestyle. They refused to budge. They could not be satisfied in simply avoiding these “abominations” themselves while permitting others to have different convictions. They insisted everyone live like they lived. A conservative lifestyle can be popular and admired when they preach to themselves and not to others.[5] But conservatives in the holiness movement refused to compromise. This is why conservatives can seldom rule effectively—even in their own connections and quasi-denominations. Leading requires compromise and for conservatives, compromise is a bad thing. They can’t accept less jewelry or controlled movie-watching—they insist on none at all for themselves and everybody else. Conservatives refuse to find common ground with folk near to them but different. They squander their efforts lobbing grenades into the camp of the very people most like themselves. It’s like the Army fighting the Navy rather than focusing on the enemy.

 

5. Conservatives will go down with the ship to stay pure.

Being unwilling to compromise, conservatives chase all compromisers out of their clubs and condemn the liberal conservatives as they shrink smaller and smaller. As they sink they brag that they “are small but pure.” They would rather stay on their own sinking ship than cooperate with people less pure than themselves for the greater good of all. As their own children flee the sinking ship they take it as one more piece of evidence that the world is sliding into a great abyss. This is how the conservatives consider themselves the “true remnant.” They become like the solitary Japanese fighters in the Pacific who hid in caves long after the war was over fighting a war that ended years before. They raise their flag every day and salute it in loyalty to a cause that has been vanquished.  But conservatives are willing to lose the war -- if they can just keep wearing their uniform, because the war was never about the enemy anyway—it was about their uniforms.

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OK I’ve been hard on conservatives here. Probably harder than they deserve. I have written elsewhere about what I like about holiness conservatives so my readers already know I think conservatives could have a lot to say to the “liberals” in the holiness movement and elsewhere. When the hyper-conservatives left my conservative denomination and launched their liberal-labeling campaign we lost the conservative voice. We lost an anchor that was good for us. Now the conservatives have their own party and the conservative leaders can preside over their own organizations and churches. But they have little effect on the rest of us. Mostly the conservatives lob grenades at each other for being more “liberal conservatives”  than themselves. The rest of us hear none of it. They still talk, but they talk mostly to themselves and they talk mostly about each other. Choosing to label liberals rather than persuade us they have lost traction in making a difference in the larger community. So, they gather in their self-made antique shops and recall the glory of the past while they make little difference for the future.

 

HOWEVER, I think there’s hope for conservatives. They could persuade the larger body. All they have to do is join the conversation by reversing the five complaints above:

 

How Conservatives can Leaven the Whole Lump

1) Abandon name-calling and labeling instead making sensible arguments and carrying on logical discourse.

2) Rally your following with a positive alternative vision of conservatism rather than using fear-mongering and denunciation as a primary means of getting a following.

3) Broaden your vision for the future beyond your latest single issue rejecting of liberals.

4) Make alliances with others for common causes even if you have to compromise a bit and let them live differently than you.

5.) Expand the conservative tent to include people how don’t have perfect conservative purity on every issue.[6]

 

If conservatives could take these steps they could leaven the whole lump. Left barricaded in the cellar they will only leaven the leaven.

 

So what do you think?

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Keith Drury   November 11, 2008

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[1] Half of my denomination (The Wesleyan Methodist half) was born to opposite way around—when Methodism wasn’t liberal or progressive enough—when Methodists refused to condemn slavery as sin. Once the civil war settled that issue many of those original leaders went back home to Methodism but others remained separate and gradually came to define themselves as more conservative then Methodists so eventually what I say here applies to this half of the church as much as the other half, though more so by 1900.

[2] My denomination is The Wesleyan Church, which resulted from a merger of the Pilgrim Holiness Church and the Wesleyan Methodist Church. However some of what I say here may apply to other Holiness denominations like The Church of the Nazarene, The Free Methodist Church or the Church of Christ in Christian Union. You decide that.

[3] My father was a master of the “strategic retreat.”   He seldom stayed and fought and never encouraged his pastors to, either.  When trouble began he usually just left.  My dad attempted to befriend his opposition but they wouldn’t hear of it.  Then he simply ignored them until their movement grew large enough to make his life uncomfortable—to which he responded with a smile, then walked away.  He moved across the state to pastor a local church.  In 1957 he left the work of a District Superintendent and re-entered pastoral ministry. He had been elected DS at age 36 and left that work at age 47 when he determined not to fight the conservatives. His new church in Stroudsburg, Pennsylvania didn’t make him sell his TV but they hoped he would.  They asked, “Do you own a TV?”  He said he did.   They mentioned that none of the board members at this church owned a TV—with obvious implications.   Beginning his strategic retreat, my dad said, “We carefully monitor what we watch.”   They elected him as pastor anyway.  After winning the battle with the board he withdrew his forces from the war: he sold the TV before loading our moving van, using the money to purchase a “HI FI” record player which turned out to be a great gain for me since I spent my high school years without a TV and thus spent all my time reading books which may have eventually led to my becoming a writer.

[4] As I reflected later on this response I realized he was teaching me that there are some things you can do but you should not be flagrant or in-you-face in doing them. This “two fences” approach to life (God’s fence & the church’s fence) may seem duplicitous at first but I learned through it that there are things a church or particular church culture may forbid that are not particularly God’s rules. He had explained this to me first in the sixth grade regarding attending an amusement park, but that’s a story for another time.

[5] For instance the Amish are more conservative then the strictest holiness folk, but they are admired by others partly because they preach to themselves and not to others. We admire them because they do not shout at the rest of us for refusing to dress or live like them. They are a testimony by just being there.

[6] There are some sterling examples of this kind of leadership in the conservative holiness movement—I could cite their names and the names of their institutions, however to do so would only set them up as a targets for the radical conservatives nearest them who would take my compliment of them as evidence of their compromise and impurity so I shall not mention their names.